R&J Day 1
PAST ACTIONS AND FUTURE ASPIRATIONS
What’s your favorite place to walk up in the morning?
What’s your favorite memory of waking up in the morning?
If you could repeat any day of your life, what day would you choose?
What activities did you do as a kid? Dance? Tee ball? Chess?
What’s on your to-do list for today?
What’s something you meant to do yesterday but didn’t quite get done?
What’s something you meant to do this year but haven’t yet done?
What’s a moment where you’ve been really proud of yourself?
What does your idealized self do that you have a hard time doing?
What’s a moment in your life that you consider to be a crossroad?
Are there any crossroads coming up in your life?
What did you want to be when you were going up?
If you could live in another country for a year, which country would you choose?
Have you ever lived in another country?
Have you moved around a lot or lived in one place your whole life?
What’s a really dumb decision you made that you don’t regret at all?
What’s a really dumb decision you made that you might regret completely?
When you think about your future, does a particular scenario come to mind?
Did you grow up with pets?
What was your favorite subject in grade school?
What was the most challenging time of your life and what helped you get through it?
Were there foods you hated as a kid that you now love?
What's the most vivid dream you've ever had?
Is there someone in your life who's been a mentor when you've needed one?
What is a way in which you've grown up a lot?
Are there any relationships in your life that need a little TLC in the present moment?
Have you ever been a mentor to anyone?
Have you ever broken the law?
What's the last thing you watched on Netflix?
Does your college major have anything to do with what you do now for work?
WHO THEY ARE AS AN INDIVIDUAL
When you think of home, where do you think of?
What’s your favorite breakfast food?
Are you a morning, afternoon, or night person?
What’s your morning routine?
Do you still do the activities you did as a kid?
If you could go back in time and tell your 14-year-old self some advice, what would you say?
Are you the kind of person who likes checking things off lists?
What’s the last thing you finished reading?
Do you put down books half read or do you seem them through to the end?
What goals have you achieved this year that you’re really proud of?
What holds you back from achieving your goals?
What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
Do you have a life philosophy or personal motto?
Are you a breakfast person?
Are you an optimist, realist, or nihilist?
What’s your favorite game?
Do you cheat at games in order to win?
How do you react if you’ve lost a game?
What’s your longest relationship, romantic or friendship?
What were you like when you were 14?
When did you first fall in love?
What do you listen to while in transit?
Do you have siblings?
Do you feel like you were born into the right body at the right moment in time?
Do you think your zodiac sign fits you?
What's your superpower?
What condiment can you not live without?
What are you most afraid of?
Do you remember your dreams?
What do you think about when you think about death?
What do you think about when you think about love?
Do you believe in an afterlife?
What do you love about yourself even though it makes your life difficult?
WHAT THEY VALUE
If you had to go a year without either a blanket or a pillow, which would you choose?
What do you value more than a good night’s sleep
What is your #1 of all time top movie pick?
If you could snap your fingers and fix a global issue, which one would you choose?
Do you have a favorite means of communicating with your friends and family?
Fiction or non-fiction books and movies; what do you engage with most?
What’s the one thing you would save from your home during a fire?
What’s are some words of wisdom or beauty that have stuck with you over the years?
What’s your favorite and least favorite vegetable?
If you had to go a week without social media would you be panicked or relieved?
Coffee or tea?
Backstreet Boys or N*SYNC?
Do you prefer dogs or cats or other?
What’s your most prized possession from childhood?
What outfit do you feel your best in?
What’s the quality you value most in a friend?
What’s the quality you value most in a romantic partner?
What would you never compromise on?
What's an unconventional view that you hold?
What's something you love or value that you don't talk about very often?
What's your favorite recipe?
What's your go-to weeknight dinner?
What could you use more of in your life?
What could you use less of?
Who is a person in your life who you value but haven't told?
If you could eviscerate one thing from the planet, what would it be?
What do you most admire about your best friend?
What makes for a happy home?
What is a memory that you wouldn't trade for anything?
How much money would it take for you to sell one day of your life?
Would you rather be indoors or outdoors?